tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post2060785472185836340..comments2023-04-05T05:54:22.366-06:00Comments on Just Us Girls: Regrouping...and still unsureHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13361585193237968343noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-42467503132506100982011-11-08T21:07:38.341-07:002011-11-08T21:07:38.341-07:00I'm so sorry about the BFN. I give yourself a...I'm so sorry about the BFN. I give yourself a bit of time, and I'm sure you will be trying again soon. The male daycare worker - you know, I feel the opposite, and wish there were more male role models for Rhian there. But I'm also very confident in the daycare, and know that they hire the best they can find. So that helps. <br /><br />Good luck!Genkicathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16588371829033093762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-80628058129956592372011-11-08T07:48:20.984-07:002011-11-08T07:48:20.984-07:00Sorry about your BFN and the way that it's sen...Sorry about your BFN and the way that it's sent you in to a spiral of doubt and uncertainty. I remember that feeling. But if you want to have a second child, regroup and get back on the horse. Having two kids is definitely harder and more stressful but it's also more rewarding and has paybacks that you won't see with just one child. And as far as your cousin... I wouldn't think her life is so perfect. Nobody's life is perfect and you only see it from the outside. We all have our own path and our own struggles, and from the outside it might seem she has everything, but you really don't know the things she's battling (or may battle in the future). All you can do is focus on your life and what you DO have and be grateful for it. If you have trouble doing that, find someone who has less and watch their lives rather than your cousin's. :) Hang in there. I know what an incredible emotional roller coaster T42 (or T41, for that matter) can be so take it one day at a time and think of this time as preparation for what comes next. And what comes next will be great!Barbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13825917249577062457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-74610211783936001852011-11-06T05:23:33.291-07:002011-11-06T05:23:33.291-07:00I agree with you about the guys working at K's...I agree with you about the guys working at K's daycare. I know they can't discriminate when they hire but I would be uncomfortable enough to change. When I was desperate for a Monday night babysitter, I could not bring myself to hire the 17 year old boy who wanted the job. I told myself I was being unreasonable--he had references. But we're moms. If we are not protective of our little ones, who will be? That's our job.Laraf123https://www.blogger.com/profile/13283945251427328960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-31429628102395793592011-11-05T11:35:49.397-06:002011-11-05T11:35:49.397-06:00The whole day care situation sucks, and I know abo...The whole day care situation sucks, and I know about wondering why some have it, at least on the surface, so good. As for baby #2, there are days where L is just driving me freakin nuts and I think I can't do this. Now as I wait to see how IUI #2 turned out, I will be happy if it works, but I don't think I will be totally disappointed if it doesn't.Navigating The Rapidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17136888490226094765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-5907589539196510882011-11-05T10:01:25.213-06:002011-11-05T10:01:25.213-06:00I'm sorry to hear you have so much on your min...I'm sorry to hear you have so much on your mind right now.<br /><br />I totally agree with you about the young guys at K's daycare...I would feel uncomfortable too.Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-34201569602416923142011-11-05T05:39:25.280-06:002011-11-05T05:39:25.280-06:00Look for a new daycare - who knows you might find ...Look for a new daycare - who knows you might find one you love! I would absolutely love to have two babies - but not sure right now how I will handle the first!bunintheovenplease!https://www.blogger.com/profile/08983526508391055997noreply@blogger.com