tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post86549292832717558..comments2023-04-05T05:54:22.366-06:00Comments on Just Us Girls: Can't find my zen happy place.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13361585193237968343noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-59418848223333918042009-07-18T10:34:42.894-06:002009-07-18T10:34:42.894-06:00There's no getting around the scary. Once you ...There's no getting around the scary. Once you get through the first trimester you'll start seeing blog posts and message board posts about 2nd tri losses. My suggestion is escapist fiction. Beach reading.Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7739107438723417053.post-64323216058879091842009-07-17T10:50:41.904-06:002009-07-17T10:50:41.904-06:00Stop googling. It's only going to drive you cr...Stop googling. It's only going to drive you crazy. The fact is that you never "know" what is going to happen. Reading up on all of that crap isn't going to prepare you should, god forbid, it happen. I'm not telling you this to freak you out, but a friend of mine recently lost her baby at 20 weeks. Everything was fine. His heart just stopped. Heaven must have needed him more than her and her husband. My point is that anything can happen, anytime. But you can't worry about it. Just focus on the beautiful blessing inside of you. Whatever happens, there was a reason behind it. But worrying isn't going to help. I'm sorry if I freaked you out. I was just trying to make a point. Wow...I'm rambling here. Sorry! Hehe. My fingers are crossed for you hun.Ms Co-Dependenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18319711585034354652noreply@blogger.com