Just Us Girls

Just Us Girls

...one SMC's adventures in single motherhood.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Six months!

Happy half-birthday, sweet girl! She turned six months old this past Tuesday, and I admit it, I was feeling rather sentimental all day. Not so much about her turning six months old, but thinking back to that momentous day six months earlier when my life changed so dramatically. I was wishing that I could remember that moment when the nurses handed her to me for the first time in more detail...I was still so groggy from the general anesthesia that my memories are quite foggy. I do remember seeing her little pink self as they wheeled me past the nursery--she was SO pink. But there's a lot that I still have to struggle to remember, which is very bittersweet for me. But the end result is still so miraculous...a healthy, happy, thriving baby girl who is the center of my universe. :)

She is now rolling over in both directions (she rolled from back to tummy first, which surprised me), sitting up with only a little bit of assistance, she LOOVES to stand and practice stepping whenever possible, and she smiles and laughs all the time. I'm pretty sure the teething process has begun, considering how fussy she's been lately, and we're still battling one blocked tear duct. We have an appointment with an opthalmologist on September 23rd, and at that point he and I will decide what to do next, with a quick outpatient procedure to open up the tear duct being a distinct possibility. I keep using warm compresses and massage at home to try and open it up, which is what happened with her other eye, now perfectly okay. But so far, no go. She really seems to want to crawl...she's scooting herself around using her arms and legs--not moving very fast or anything, but still.

We're experimenting more and more with solids: so far we're up to rice cereal or oat cereal every morning and meat most nights at dinnertime (for the iron). I added pears this morning, which she seemed to like, and we'll add a vegetable on Tuesday. Not sure yet what we'll start with, probably squash or sweet potatoes. I'm following the "only add a new food every three days" rule to watch for allergies. I also have barley cereal which we'll add soon as well. I did have to give in to formula while she's at daycare because I simply was not able to pump as much as I needed to each day...I went through my frozen stash incredibly fast, unfortunately. But when we're together I still breastfeed. Not sure how long that will last, considering that I'm not pumping while I'm at work, either...there's just not that much time for it. I'll just nurse as long as I can, I guess. :(

Daycare is going very well, now that I've gotten used to it...the daycare center she goes to has really grown on me, the more I've found out about how things are done there. It's a bit pricier than the home situations I checked out, but I'm happy with the one I finally chose, and truth be told, K is all smiles when we get there every morning. I've also seen a few of the candid photos they've taken of the kids, and K is smiling broadly in all the ones she's in. I do get the sense she's happy there, which means so much to me. And I really like the women who take care of her as well as how things run there.

I am SO looking forward to the next few months to see what she'll learn how to do next! So many changes in store...it's so exciting!!


  1. She is so beautiful! I know its trite to say, but it sure goes by fast doesn't it? Rhian did soooo much new stuff last month (at 6 months) I could hardly keep up - it is just so much fun.

    How do you prepare the meat for K? I've been blending mine with veggies - not sure how else to make it happen. I also did the new food every 2 - 3 days at first. But then stopped, as she doesn't seem to react at all to anything.

    K has the best smile.

  2. Happy 1/2 Birthday!
    It's so crazy that it's already been 6 months

  3. Thanks, everyone! I can hardly believe it's been six months, either! :)
    @Genkicat - In terms of the whole meat issue, it's the only solid food (beef so far) that I've been giving her out of the...ahem...jar. I'm not thrilled with the idea, but I'm not sure how to prepare it, either, and I'm not convinced that I'd be able to puree it smoothly enough for her since she has NO teeth yet. :) I like the idea of blending it with veggies, too.

  4. Happy 6 Month Birthday, beautiful girl! Think of all the "firsts" you'll enjoy the next six months--best wishes!

  5. Those daycare photos, where they're having a good time, always make me feel better. There's one on their bulletin board now with my wee one "helping" to make blue jello and she looks so grown up. I love seeing that she's involved and having fun.

  6. She's gorgeous :-). Happy half birthday!
    Nice to see what my little girl will be up to soon.